No one knows your situation the way you do. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career. I am Roman Catholic so I believe almost the exact same things as a regular-non mobot- type mormon This religion Mormonism has a dual identity where some believers are closed mined fools. I know a Doctor who drug his wife and 2 children across the US to begin his residency. We got married two years ago. I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people.
I loved being single, and I love dating him now, but demanding rotations are giving me an idea of what his surgical residency will be like except that I know it will be x I have spent hours and hours and hours on blogs like these, trying to understand if it will be worth it-- worth the very real possibility of losing my identity, of boxing myself in career-wise, of never being in control of where I live, of a thousand lonely nights. Find someone who is available to you and successful. It did not go well. As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. It is helpful to know that there are others who are experiencing the same emotions and to hear about your coping methods and advice. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. The Book of Abraham one admits it's not a translation. Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship.
My husband is a 3rd year ENT resident, and we started dating right before he started med school. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career. Some mormon girls are closeted freaks as someone here has already said. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward.
Honestly I'd let things keep going. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church.
Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality. Spending a lifetime single is not something most people would choose to do, but fear of being forever single should never be a deciding factor in entering a marriage, lest serious problems go unaddressed before serious commitments are made.